The day after our 2 year anniversary I received the usual “good morning beautiful:)” then later on in the afternoon I get one that starts off with “I have to be honest”. I know that since I live 7 hours away in college he couldn’t exactly do it face to face right then but he’s known for a while now that I was coming up in two weeks. Why did he have to end it over text? Also I’m still debating on if I should see him and get the closer I deserve but then again I’m afraid it’ll bring back all the memories and he’ll know how much he hurt me. I need help moving on.
Hello, my name is josh, but my friends call me fong, long story. Just a little about me and my lady. We have been together for about 3 years and we recently went through a time of on and off again talking, not for any particular reason really, it just ended up being a weird time for us.
We have been good for about a week now, like it used to be. But, we are pretty serious and have been together for a long time. I am very serious about her for her to be doing that to me. I mean 3 years in, it shouldnt take a few weeks of not talking to think things through, you should have decided by now, right? Right.
Am I being weird about this, or am I right. Should I just go with it and see if things go well, or should I tell her how I feel?
I’m 22 and have been with my boyfriend four almost 5 years. He is ten years older than me, has a 7 year old child, and the whole time we’ve been together, it has been a long distance relationship. Although being 300 miles apart hasn’t been completely unreasonable, it hasn’t been easy either. Where things get complicated is that he is a Canadian citizen, and I an American, so, we cannot live in the same country until we get married. I am graduating from college in less than three weeks and then will be heading off to medical school in August.
Altough I’ll technically be closer to him (in terms of distance) when I go to medical school, there will still be a large drive and an international border between us. He has asked me to marry him three times. I have said yes very reluctantly all three times, and then at a later point changed my mind and said that I’m not ready to be married. At 5 yeras in, I don’t feel like I can continue to uphold this long distance relationship, but the only way to nix the distance is to get married, which I feel like is a poor choice.
Although I love him very much, we’ve had our fair share of difficulties. There’s been death, and lying, cheating, and a total break down of communication. I’ve been debating about breaking up with him for a very long time, but he is extremely resistant to the idea, so it’s never happened.
I really apprciate for what he’s done to help me and he’s a good guy, but i just don’t think I’m ready to be married. I’m exhauseted from constantly trying to fix this relationship, and that’s not a stress I’ll need during med school. It’s so hard to leave someone who I do love though. Espeically when he tells me that I’ll never get to see our dog (who I picked out, and paid half for, and bought lots of things for) or his son (who calls me his step mom)
What’s a girl to do? I’m still young, but i’m scared, I’ve never known anything else and I’m scared that I’ll never find someone who loves me like he does.
So what’s the verdict? We are basically not on talking terms right now and I’m leaning towards breaking up, I think that’s the right thing to do, but I’m worried I’ll regret it forever. I’d love to get opinions of people completely removed from the situation
my best friend called me crying over her boyfriend …her boyfriend and her ex got into a fight and her ex told him all this crap thats not true he broke up with her so he called her and broke up now shes calling me crying WHAT DO I DO?
she loves him
So, my girlfriend and I have been together for a couple months and we are having trouble because I wanted to go out and get a third shift job so I can make more money. I really wanna get a house and move outta my parents, but to do so, I need more money.
She says well be on different schedules and that we wouldnt see each other as much and she might go out and cheat. Pretty crappy excuse, right? I thought so too.
What should I do?
If i get a a job shell cheat? Yeah. Anyway, tell me some advice!
My girlfriend and I have been together for quite sometime, around 3 years. The first two years of our relationship she didnt have a problem with my working so much because she was in the same field, and traveled just like me.
This past year or so she has taken an office job at the same network, simply because it pays about 50 bucks more a week, and she doesnt have to travel anymore. Which we thought would be cool, so one of us could take care of the house we live in.
That has happened, and even though the house stays in good shape now, our relationship doesnt. She is starting to get really sad, and, as bad as I hate to say it, starting to accuse me of being sexually attracted to some other people that have to travel for work with me, which is the primary problem.
Her accusing me of this is without any sort of justification, it just seems as if she is trying to peg something on me for no reason, just because she is upset.
I try to work hard at my job, and treat her right, but when she accuses me of something like this, I do not like it.
I am considering two things, one, break up with her and maybe she will realize how good I really was, or quit my job, and stay home just avoid a fight.
I was chillin one day, and this really pretty girl added me on facebook, said hey, after the usual, we met up and went on a few dates.
Now she is trying to say that I just creeped on her on facebook and that I do that with lots of other girls, and that it meant nothing, etc.
She facebooked me? This is such a dumb problem. should I just break up with her?
I have been on the break up train for about a month now, we go back and forth and back and forth, and it just a terrible situation. I was out with some friends at the club when she texted me and said she wanted to see me the following day.
Well I waited all day until around 5:00pm, and I didnt hear from her, and so I made the mistake of calling her, when she answered the phone it was really loud, and she let me know she was having a get together with friends at her house, and that she had forgotten all about us hanging out. I mentioned that we had planned on going out that day, and she basically said I needed to back off and that she enjoyed us being friendly but we didnt need to talk so much?
I am really confused, she called me, then gets mad.
I am tired of reading generic advice online, I need true to me advice, please help me!!!
Long story very short, I just need some good break up advice, even just voting is enough.
I have been unofficialy dating this guy for 2 months, and we are intimate and everything, we go to movies, sleep in the same bed, etc. We are basically dating for real.
He keeps going back to this girl he dated a long time ago, and he says it is just casual, and its no big deal, and I honestly think he just goes to fool around with her, and emotionally wants me.
I really think he likes me, and just uses her.
Its difficult thing to deal with, I am getting played, or is it her?
So lately I have been thinking that I needed some advice, I asked around and I got mixed answers on what exactly I should do, so whatever it takes, I will ask around online or anything really because things are getting difficult.
A few people I know are going on vacation tomorrow, and I want to go, and my girlfriend doesnt want me to go, mainly because she cant get off work to go herself.
I realize I probably wont get an answer before tomorrow on what I should do, but…. she has done this before. Everytime I get a chance to do something cool, I cant go, or better yet, if I do anyway, I get in “trouble”
I am thinking of breaking up with her, is that a little extreme? Its just that it is a little annoying to never go anywhere with people.
I hate to seem like I am referencing the song. It is kinda catchy, but they play it so much at my gym. I cant stand it anymore! Haha. But before I get sidetracked let me tell you a little about what is up.
My girlfriend and I follow this cycle for some reason, we get close, and then we grow apart. Over and over and over. It is really strange. We dont fight, but things just go from love and admiration for one another, to just blahh, then back again.
It takes us a few months to get close, we say we love each other, we do tons of stuff, etc. Then she says, we are getting to serious, lets chill. So we do, and things remain decent as far as fighting, or anything.
Problem is, the progress seems to go away. For example. Why waste a few months getting serious, and then go back to square one.
I think we have a bad case of the different goals. She wants to do whatever and have a guy, while I want to grow to know and love someone and be serious.
I am lost on this one, I want any advice I can get. But just to follow the trend on here, should we break up?
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months. We have basically lived together for the last month. We both attend college and have apartments, so we can for the most part live together, without having to move all of our stuff.
I go to college for nursing, but I really really wanna pursue competitive rock climbing, and then move on into some sort of sponsored career in outdoors adventure. I really think competitive rock climbing is my door into this world.
My boyfriend is really used to me being at my house around dinner, and we spend the night together doing homework, dinner, etc. When I am out climbing or bouldering and I am out late, he gets upset.
Lately he has even began to say things like I choose climbing over him, and that I need to focus on nursing, and that school is more important than silly stuff.
To me its not silly though, I love it. I really want to be with him, but I dont know how long I can stand him not letting me stay out late?
Should we break up?
So, I have been seeing this girl off and on for around a week. We went on two dates, one to the movies, and one to the park to chill, feed these fish in a local fish farming place, and then had a little picnic.
I have been having a good time with her, but we just dont mesh as far as girlfriend and boyfriend material. No big deal. Not tragic, but me and the girl just dont seem to be headed towards anything.
We are suppose to hang out this friday, and I honestly dont want to.
I have a difficult time with these things, should I “BREAK UP” with her, or just tell her I cant make it to the hang out, and stop talking to her?
All I need is some help with my fish tank, no big deal, right? Wrong.
I want my girlfriend to help me clean it and feed the fish while I am gone for a week on a school trip. She refuses.
It sounds like no big deal, but she wont help do anything. She wont help with fish, or food, or coming up with ideas, she wont do anything at all
What should I do? I mean she acts like she likes me, but all she wants to do is show up and smile and I do the rest?
My name is Andie, I am a senior in high school. I have been dating Sean for about 2 months, and I love him.
Recently it came up that we had different plans for college, he wants to go get a job and work his way up, and not go to school, I want to attend a college about 50 miles away.
I am scared because I wanted to stay with him, and I know how it goes.
I dont really want to leave him, but what should I do?
Everyone here seems nice. I hope I get some good advice!
I am just too lucky. My girl left me and now I can do whatever I want to do. HAHAHAHAHA
No kidding though, is anyone else glad they are single on here?
I had tons of problems with my girl, and now I just play COD all day and chill!!
My name is Bell, I do some modeling, mostly semi nude. By ‘semi’ I mean that it does not include anything but topless. Not dirty or anything.
Anyhow, I did a photo shoot and it was more racy than usual, and things got a little crazy. I dont want to go into details, but the photos where more than what I usually do. But not terrible. I promise.
You might read this, and think shes a skank, or whatever, but I am not. I just do artistic shots, and it is not a big deal. My boyfriend knew and agreed that this was fine with him before we got together. I had for a long time, avoided having a significant other because everyone acts cool about it, then they freak out.
So, sparing tons of boring details, My boyfriend got mad at this particular photo shoot. Said it was more than what he was comfortable with. I really enjoy him, and would love to give things a chance, but to me, he is not doing his part by getting angry,
How should I even start to handle this, should we break up? Keep in mind, we dated casually for 2 months before we agreed to be exclusive because I am careful because of all the people in the past that get angry over my modeling.
We have been together for 7 months now.
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Hello break up vote
My name is Jill. I am 23, I am in the Navy.
I met a guy while I was on leave and I really really like him. We have been doing things I would never have with anyone so soon. Not just physical stuff, but telling each other things, said I Love You a few times! Haha. I know sappy right?
I have to go back in week, and I dont know what to do. He is a lineman that works on telephone lines, so he cant exaclty move with me..
I am scared that it wont work out with us, being far apart.
I dont even really have a start at what to say I am thinking about doing. I am open to any advice at all!
I dont even know why I am wasting my time doing this because we are pretty much done with at this point. Me and my girlfiend have a kid together, she is 2 years old.
My girlfriend decided that since I dont work 2 jobs to let her stay at home, that she would leave me. Basically, She wants one person working two jobs instead of 2 people working 1 job a piece.
She says she really needs to stay at home and watch our child, while I work 18 hours a day. I get that she loves the child, but at some point I have to spend time with her, and still have time to rest.
She moved to her moms house yesterday, and said when I get my stuff together we can move back in together.
I already make 22.00 an hour at a factory job and bring home good money?
This request seems a little much, and she wont let up any at all?
PLEASE HELP WITH SOME ADVICE!!
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My name is Natalie, I am from California, and I love to just chill and relax and be lazy in the sun when I am not at work or taking my online classes.
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months, and he is obsessed with surfing. He is always practicing, or swimming, or reading about surfing, it is his life, which is okay, we have awesome oceans near my home, I love the sun, it is just super cool.
But, he always surfs with this girl he went to high school with. I didnt have a problem with it until he started wanting to hang out with her outside of surfing, They even went out and had drinks a few times. Is this weird?
I am not really thinking of breaking up with him, although you can go ahead and vote if you want, I just need some advice, is this sketchy to you all? Or should I just let it go?
I hope you all can offer some insight. I havent really heard they like one another, or suspect anything, I am just trying to figure out if my worry is for nothing?
Part of being a founder of a website is to creep around on competitors sites to see what others are posting. I read about a guy on a forum earlier I would like to share.
He met a girl, they were friends for 4 years, dated a month, she cheated on him twice, and then begged him to be just friends again?
I have seen several break ups come and go through this site, but that seems like such a strange set of events? Dont you think?
People get cheated on, and people date their friends, but for this to happen to him?
What do you all think?
So, my boyfriend’s professors think it is okay to get all up in his business on the facebook and in person talking about how cute and smart and how they just wanna just jump all up on him. I am NOT okay with this. These triflin’ ho’s need to back up. But I kind of think that he wants it. They are all old and grody. Is it just me, or is this dusgusting?!?!?!?!? Help me out, girl.
So, my boyfriend chuck goes to the same college as I do, he went for 2 years then decided to join a fraternity his junior year. Which is great, my dad was in one, my friends from high school are in the same one as him. No big deal.
So… my friends came to me indirectly and told me chuck has been dating other girls. This really really bothers me. For two reasons.
1. Obviously, I want to be exclusive and have always thought we were.
2. He has never cheated on me drunk or anything. All his friends and brothers swear that he hardly drinks and never gets out of hand, I have never heard stories, and never had a reason to suspect it. So, if he loves me like he says he does, and he never made a drunken mistake, and he is instead making a sober and thought out effort to date other girls, should I just leave him?
I havent asked him. But the details are too good to think he didnt do it. I promise.